Sensory seeking behavior can feel like a lot to manage. If your child is a sensory seeker you might feel like you are always telling your child no. “Don’t put that in your mouth”, “Don’t climb up the slide”, “Watch out, don’t run into..”, “Don’t throw the ball so hard”, “Be careful!”, etc. In this post we are going to unpack what sensory seeking behavior means & teach you how to support their nervous system so you can experience more calm in your household. Let’s dive right in!
Children who are sensory seekers are frequently described as being intense or wild. They can have a tendency to be constantly moving or it seems like they are always on the go. When it comes to playing, everything is bigger, faster, or harder. They could also seem overly curious – touching or grabbing everything, or constantly chewing or putting things in their mouth. Seeking behavior could also look like risky behavior. Perhaps they love spinning or being upside down, or they love crashing into things (people, cushions, walls, ect). Lastly, sensory seekers can tend to make constant noise – talking, screaming, laughing, screeching, ect.
Here at Children In Motion we view behavior as an opportunity to understand our children better. Behavior is communication. To you it may seem like they are just a wild child trying your patience. The reality is that their nervous system needs more sensory input to regulate. In the following section we will provide guidance on how you can support your sensory seeker no matter why they are a seeker.
The best thing you can do as a parent is provide opportunities for your child to meet their sensory threshold. When your child meets their threshold, their nervous system is satisfied. It can finally take a breath because it has received enough information to regulate – “Ah, that’s it”. It’s just like when you are using the oven to bake a cake. The oven preheats, and when it finally reaches the right temperature, it’s good to go. Here’s how you can help your child meet their threshold –
#1. Identify what kind of information they are seeking
There are three types of sensory input your child could be seeking based on their behavior –
| Input Needed | Behavioral Signs |
|---|---|
| Movement | Constant movement |
| Muscle Work | Crashing, climbing, throwing, chewing |
| Tactile | Touching everything |
Your child might need multiple types of input to regulate their nervous system. Pick one input/behavior to start with.
#2. Meet the threshold
When it comes to meeting the sensory threshold, we like to focus on adjusting activities to increase one of three things – repetition/duration, intensity, novelty.
| Input Needed | Examples of How to Meet the Threshold |
|---|---|
| Movement | Activity: Swinging
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| Muscle Work | Activity: Obstacle Course
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| Tactile | Activity: Water Play or Bean Bucket
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Once your child’s threshold is met, they will be able to regulate. This will help them focus, follow directions, listen, sit still, & make safe decisions. You should be able to tell a difference in their level of calmness.
For some children you might see an immediate change. For others it can take more time. If you don’t notice any changes after trying this consistently for a month, then it is time to reach out to an occupational therapist for specialized support.
Sensory seeking behavior certainly can keep you on your toes! With this information & guidance you should be able to help your child’s nervous system get the information it needs so you can take a breath. If you feel overwhelmed & unsure where to start, we’d love to support you.
Our team works with sensory seekers almost every day in our clinic, so we know exactly where to start! Through parent coaching or individual therapy sessions in our clinic in Sandy Springs, GA, we can give you the confidence to know how to support your unique sensory seeker. The best way to reach out to us is through our contact form.
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